“Hristos se rodi! Vaistinu se rodi”

“Christ is born! Truly, He was born”

Serbian Christmas  Greeting (instead of “Merry Christmas “)

I grew up as a complete antichrist – this is how parents in Serbia used to brush off their children when not behaving properly – but, in our case, the meaning was literal as much as metaphorical. We just did not practice any religious customs, and for us, then, this was the way things were. We had a lots of fun and this fun was coming from the people we lived surrounded with and people we loved. And if there was God and this God was Fun, I am sure he would have been welcomed to stop by. For the rest, as in many “middle class, big city” families – tradition was the thing of the past.

In Germany, Christmas plays a prominent role in family life.  My kids are asking: “How did you do it?” I say: “We just didn´t”. They look at me horrified and ask: “Santa Clause never came to you?” “Well, no, but you know what….” and then I do my best to remember. I struggle to remember everything anyone has ever told me of how our forefathers celebrated Christmas in the past – not because I suddenly want to radically stick to it and succumb in some anachronic, super-religious and mega- stupid dark age many of my unfortunate fellow citizens did – but because I would like to have sensed it and known it. It was a part of my shared identity and, somehow, it was taken away form me. My kids (and I) might be just a blink in the universe´s space and time, but this lovely, bubbly, curious, chatty blink is a dot of an eternal line that stems from the past and leads to the future. Somewhere on that line, there was Christmas time packed with a whole lot of symbols that were hoped to bring health, prosperity, life and love. Today, I might care more about my iPhone and my Nikkon then I care about my Badnjak. But, not so long ago, there was a young handsome fore-mother of mine, who was preparing our Christmas, and because of her – I am here where I am now. Hristos se rodi!

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Serbian Christmas Table with Serbian Christmas Pie, Serbian Christmas Bread (Česnica), yule log (Badnjak) and Walnuts believed to bring health

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For this special occasion, our host baked her family´s Christmas Pie: there is a coin hidden in a piece of pie – whoever finds it will have a prosperous year. The pieces are tagged by the post, oops, host.

serbian sweet pie, serbian christmas pie We, emigrants become tightly knit, like a family. He who decided to leave his motherland, or as the Germans say it Heimat (from home = Heim), knew this feeling: it is extremely important to leave and discover new lands, but it is equally important to have a safe haven, or Heimathafen (a home port). Or a place that feels like home.

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Serbian Christmas Bread or Česnica is a sign of prosperity after the long fasting season. A coin and other small symbolic objects (walnut, piece of Badnjak) may be put in a dough during the baking ritual. Those who find them will be exceptionally lucky in a year to come.

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Usually, the Christmas bread is broken among the family members, but we broke the pie, so we could cut the bread.

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Every family has its own customs of preparing the Christmas Dinner and the Christmas Bread. Many rituals, straight or twisted interpretations are embedded. We celebrated in a way it was usual in Vojvodina (northern Serbia).

badnjak, yule log, christmas branch

Badnjak has a very special place in Serbian tradition and is tightly connected to the male principle – as a “house keeper” and a “fire place” (čuvar kuća i ognjište).

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Christmas table in a Serbian home – or, a home in exile. Health, prosperity and fertility are symbolically represented.

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Christmas Tree does not play a prominent role in the eastern (orthodox) as in the western tradition, but is still a part of the festive decoration.